The First Six Weeks: Laying the Foundation for a Successful Middle School Year

Build Relationships

In the words of former President Theodore Roosevelt, “People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care.” Middle school students won’t remember every lesson, but they will remember if you cared about them.

The early weeks of school must focus on building relationships and earning trust. Before diving deep into the curriculum, successful middle school teachers must humanize the classroom experience. This doesn’t require elaborate bonding activities or forced icebreakers. In fact, some of the best rapport is built through small moments, as long as they are consistent (i.e. greeting students at the door by name, asking about their weekends, noticing when someone seems off, etc.).

Consistency and presence matter more than flashiness. When students feel seen and safe, they behave better, take more risks personally and academically, and test boundaries less.

Rapport isn’t a soft skill. It is essential classroom management. Students are less likely to disrupt a class when they feel connected to the adult in charge and as though they are a part of a community. They’re also more likely to self-correct when they’ve internalized the mutual respect built through those early weeks.

Establish Structure

Middle school students crave structure even though they push against it. Rules are important, but pristine routines are where the real magic happens. The first six weeks must be devoted to making classroom procedures automatic (i.e. entering and exiting, transitioning, communicating about attendance, tidying up their desks, arranging their seats, etc.).

A common misconception is the assumption that students know “how to act.” On the contrary, it is important to very explicitly model every expectation, as well as rehearse it repeatedly until it becomes second nature. As simple as it may sound, “practice makes perfect.”

Being “extra” (as students say these days) at the start is advantageous in the long-run. For example, insisting that students keep their legs under their chairs or raise their hand before speaking, or redoing a task when one or two students mess up may appear extremely rigid, but doing so in middle school classrooms is vital.

If you expect students to only use the restroom one at a time, you must enforce this rule consistently, every single time. If participation is required, you must encourage it in a gentle but firm manner. The first time a rule is ignored and the student does not receive a consequence, you’ve unintentionally introduced an opportunity for future students to violate the directive.

Some teachers worry that this approach will make them seem too strict, but students respect consistency. Arbitrary enforcement can come across as bias, especially when students feel that rules seem to apply only sometimes or to certain kids.

Being “extra” about expectations in the first six weeks prevents chaos later. You can always loosen up as the year goes on, but it’s much harder to regain authority once it’s been lost. Adolescents thrive when they know the boundaries and can predict adult responses. In essence, clarity and consistency equate to caring and kindness.

Communicate with Families

In addition to a classroom where rapports are prevalent and where there is predictability and fairness of the teacher’s actions, communicating with families is quite beneficial. Unfortunately, educators often fall into the pattern of only contacting home when something goes wrong.

During the first six weeks, there’s an opportunity to create a very different narrative. Earlier in the school year, students are usually on their best behavior because they are eager to gain approval. Teachers should use this proverbial “honeymoon period” to reach out to families with some positive feedback.

This kind of upbeat initial contact sets the tone for a collaborative relationship with families, shows students that you notice and appreciate their efforts, and gives you positive credibility if there is a need to have a harder conversation. When you’ve already praised a student, a later call about misbehavior feels less like condemnation and more like concern.

Students often struggle with identity and self-worth in middle school, so knowing a teacher “saw” them enough to call home for something good is a confidence booster! Plus, families (especially those who haven’t always received positive school communication) deeply value receiving favorable feedback.

The first six weeks in a middle school classroom are not a warm-up. They are when relationships are built and routines become rituals. Being “extra” about expectations, positivity, and structure isn’t about control. Being “extra” is important because clarity and consistency equate to caring and kindness. A positive classroom culture and community will form, setting you and your students up for a strong and smooth school year.